This is a game of learning patience , patience with all the tests , scans and app. you have to see, I was similar to you , but when I saw surgeon , the scans showed it had spread to a few other places , so chemo first 6 months ,wait to be a bit stronger , more scans , then surgery , wait again to get a bit better , radiation next.
So trust me and all the ladies that are on here, just do one day at the time and don't stress ( i know hard not to) when what you want isn't what your oncologist and surgeon have planned for you.
Breathe ......Good luck .