@Angieree
Bad luck but welcome! I hope you get your referral soon. Waiting is an inevitable part of the experience I’m afraid, but some is more understandable than others. A polite phone call about when you might expect to get/hear something is perfectly in order. It’s all confusing at first so never hesitate to ask questions, depending on your own threshold about information. Some like to know a lot, others a bit less detail. It’s all one step at a time at this stage however. The network can be very useful for the question you forgot to ask, for clarification or just to let off steam (everyone needs to from time to time). Best wishes.