southernsun
2 years agoMember
Going public - will I have any choices
Hi all - I received a call last week telling me that my biopsies show cancer in one of my breasts. It's not a total surprise as there is a very strong family history of it - I always felt like a ticking time bomb. Regardless, I feel like a bit of a zombie at the moment, the situation is consuming me. The shock of it and not knowing what is ahead is awful.
I have an appointment with a surgeon at a public hospital tomorrow. I suspect they will recommend lumpectomy with radiation, but I would prefer to just have a bilateral mastectomy and be done with it. I watched my mum go through 5 years of anxiety wondering if it was coming back. Ideally I would have the immediate reconstruction, but I presume that wouldn't happen in the public system.
Has anyone gone through the public system and been given choices as to the treatment they have, or do you have to go private to make these choices? How can I find out what it would cost if I was to fund it all ourselves? Just wondering if we can find the money, how much would we need?
I have an appointment with a surgeon at a public hospital tomorrow. I suspect they will recommend lumpectomy with radiation, but I would prefer to just have a bilateral mastectomy and be done with it. I watched my mum go through 5 years of anxiety wondering if it was coming back. Ideally I would have the immediate reconstruction, but I presume that wouldn't happen in the public system.
Has anyone gone through the public system and been given choices as to the treatment they have, or do you have to go private to make these choices? How can I find out what it would cost if I was to fund it all ourselves? Just wondering if we can find the money, how much would we need?