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Tracey62
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8 years ago

FLAT AND FABULOUS?

dont take this personally ladies . . . but I had really hoped not to find myself back here <3

2015 wide local excision, chemo 6 months, rads 6 weeks and 2 years Letrazole later I find myself back in the club that none of us wanted to join, but so grateful to know I am not alone.

New scan shows THREE new primary tumours in my other breast. Thankfully other tests show no spread to bones, liver or lungs, and lymph nodes are not enlarged on scan. Much to be grateful for.

so because this is not a recurrence or a secondary, but, lucky me, a whole new bc x 3, the surgeon is recommending bilateral mastectomy. I agree with him that sadly it is necessary. 

Ive been looking up mastectomy without reconstruction on the internet. There are some good sites like Flat & Fabulous that recognise not everyone wants reconstruction after mastectomy. I am a 38DD & the thought of not having heavy breasts interests me. Just think, no more sore shoulders and strap marks  :D

I had almost decided to remain flat after surgery when I saw some great results with DIEP flap reconstruction. Would really like to hear from anyone who has had bilateral mastectomy and either no recon or a flap recon. Did you get recon straight away, or after chemo? How did you decide and what has life been like for you since?

How on earth do you make this decision?

Yeah though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death
    I WILL FEAR NO EVIL
                                          amen

22 Replies

  • Thanks Nikki, 
    I thought the group was for those who have had a recon, didn't realise it was also for those of us still exploring the options.  So glad you are happy with your results.
    hugs, Tracey
  • Hi @Traceyt62, I had a DIEP Recon 11 weeks ago...as did @melclarity. Our photo stories are in the Breast Reconstruction Group -  it's a closed group so you just need to request to join.

    I am very very happy with the DIEP results, as it's so natural...but it isn't for everyone and we all make decisions that are right for us. Only around 10% of women in Australia who are diagnosed with BC actually end up having reconstructions.....

    Anyways, we are there to help with any queries you may have...just join the group :).

    Nikki x