First post, can't believe this is happening

Hi 

I know how you are feeling, of course your scared me too, like its a dream?! Is this really happening? I had my op on 21 April, specialist told me yesterday due to the grade 3, triple receptor factor (didn't reach the glands) that chemo/radiation was recommended for best outcome because it's an aggressive little monster, I take comfort that they have come a long way in tackling bc but im constantly still asking why? How? When? Wtf! People tell me to be strong be positive - yes but it's a roller coaster ride too, it's good to have these blogs to seek each other out for support & advise, keep strong, let me know your results, whatever it is it will all be okay, we will come out on the other side stronger women, Sophie x