Hi @unicorn3
I know what you mean about how unfair this all is! I'm 50 and often get cranky about everything that we have gone through when I see others who are blissfully unaware.... I think we are entitled to feel how ever we want after all of that! But as you say we have to pick ourselves up and dust ourselves off and be really thankful for the amazing treatment that's out there and think of all the other warrior women who have been through this too and will go through it after us! I see it as a gift as now, I have a new perspective and nothing phases me when I compare it to what I have been through with treatment. I have stayed positive right through the whole process.... and tried to look at the positive side... after all a frown turned upside down is a smile!
I hope you have a great week ahead too!