Hi @Faith123, I’m sorry to hear about your bc diagnosis and surgery dramas
I had a mastectomy 12yrs years ago and will be having my other’good’ breast removed soon. I’ll be remaining flat. Is this what you are doing or is there recon involved too?The actual mastectomy op is not much different to a lumpectomy -pain wise and recovery wise. You’ll possibly be in hospital for 3 days and have drains in. The pain was abit intense for 3 days and then it eased off. Button down the front pjs are a good idea.Don’t feel you have to have a shower the next day if you aren’t up to it- I opted for a wash bowl. You may have a binder around your chest but a nurse will check your dressing/wound.I looked at my chest the next day and I wasn’t as shocked as I thought I’d be- maybe I was on a painkiller high! It’s a big adjustment and I think the mental and emotional impact hits you later. It’s probably easier to wear shirts and cardigans at first,incase it’s hard to lift your arm up.A small soft cushion under the seatbelt might help you get home. Best wishes for your surgery and ask any questions. xx