@Cynth6 - when you get the Kit (or if you've got it already), there's a great diary in it. I used that to list all my questions for my surgeons (breast and plastic). When I saw my breast surgeon, she just said "shoot..." and away i went with 2 pages of questions....40 minutes later I was so damned relieved! She's such a great surgeon, she totally understood my need to know and was very empathic.
I've now progressed to dot points in the Notes app on my iphone - so when I see my PS, or oncologist, I just open up the notes and fire away. You'll find, after time, the list gets shorter and shorter as you become more and more expert in your treatment :).
