Disappointed and confused by the system

I suspect my father knew he would not handle serious illness well. He died instantly of a massive heart attack while reading the newspaper (became a family joke about the dangers of reading the Courier Mail!!).  Most of our lives, we just concentrate on living and what's happening, as we should. I don't think it's misplaced or morbid to spend a little time thinking about how we exit, especially if we have the good fortune of long, healthy and happy lives. Here's hoping you have lots more too.