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Disappointed and confused by the system
I should start by saying I am almost 73 and have had a lifetime of excellent health (apart from hysterectomy a couple of years ago) and never expected to be dealing with this. Mammograms stopped a few...
More similarities! My mother too died at 93, however she willingly went into care when she was 86 and the other options weren't viable. Physical deterioration was remorseless, but she was cared for and as comfortable as possible. Incredibly, she remained cheerful (was always as sharp as a tack) until just a few months before she died. That's when I knew she wouldn't fight the next infection, she had quietly and calmly had enough. I'm working, travelling, enjoying my grandchildren. Life is good. But it also not for ever. So I'll enjoy everything I can but also make some plans for other eventualities.