Hi @Sally_T75,
I think the DIEP flap would def be the most natural way to reconstruct a breast. It is, however, also quite a long surgery with a long recovery time. Lots of women on this forum have had a DIEP done, and you can see their results and read about their experiences with it in the reconstruction group. It’s a private group so just make a request to join, then you can check out the photo stories and ask questions there 👌🏻.
In terms of payment, I asked if I could pay my surgeon privately and have my mastectomies done publicly, and they agreed. But it was in a hospital that offered both options. Some hospitals don’t offer this. You’ll prob be best finding a surgeon you like who works both private and public, and try to organise it that way.
I’m sure some other ladies will share their experiences with you.
Good luck! 🍀