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Afraser
8 years agoMember
I know this is hard but no-one knows how much time they have. Ever. My mother used to say life is what happens when you were making other plans. Your life just took a turn that's scary and unwelcome. Doing nothing won't end the uncertainty, it will just substitute one uncertainty with another. You need someone close at hand to talk to, there are people who can help you at this stage, as Melinda has suggested. I have spent the last 5 years with one breast. I can look in the mirror with ease. It's not a terrible thing to me, it's an obstacle that I overcame. My last five years have been great in many ways, would not have missed them for quids. Take heart, the fix is about your head and your heart not just your breast.