Thanks @mum2jj I will look at the question sheet for the plastic surgeon. I am now going give the DCIS no more energy until I go to the plastic surgeon & have the decision of what type of reconstruction. I am a D cup and do have a bit of a belly so DEIP might be the way to go. It will always be in the back of my mind, but I won't give it the fuel to consum me.
At the moment I'm going enjoying this lovely Perth weather, walk my little dachshund and be a tolerant mother to a teenage daughter!
Thank you for all the comments above, believe me your experiences and support is most valuable to me. I'm sure I will be asking some random questions very soon. Xx