Thank you for your reply. I feel less alone. That lump does seem to get bigger every day - it's hideous and I didn't want to talk my bra off to shower because I felt like my breast betrayed me. Crazy. It's a busy time in your sons life; glad he has grade 12 out of the way. My eldest daughter will be doing that next year during my treatment. Feeling bad for her.
I feel like if I cope well then everyone else will but it's sure hard to keep it up. I hope your treatment goes well.