Cute31892015 posted for her sister

@cute31892015 We can all understand how devastating this news is. Know that their is treatment which can give her good quality of life. Her team will do all that they can to ensure this. Kath x

Oh @cute31892015, what devastating news for you both. That's great advice from Cath, I do hope the counsellors can help you along this path and give you both the support you need. I'm sure they will also send out the Hope and Hurdles kit  https://www.bcna.org.au/resource/kits/hope-hurdles/  This kit has been specifically designed for people with metastatic cancer and should give you both some information about what to ask the specialists and what is available to help. Sending hugs to you both, Jane xx

Hi @cute31892015,  Please Phone 1800 500 258, or get your sister to phone this number. It is the BCNA number and they have specialist counselling for ladies and men who are diagnosed with metastatic cancer (that is in liver etc). Your sister can discuss her feelings , fears, and talk to someone trained in this area. Sending a big hug to both of you, because you are walking every step of the journey with her and you need support as well. Xx Cath

My sister  fell devastated everyday after she find out her cancer spread on her liver and bones.today she did not go to work for the pain she supper on her hands

Hi @cute31892015 I had chemo first, as I had a 8cm tumour in my breast and my surgeon wantedchemo first to reduce the lump. After chemo my CT came back clear and I'm now in hospital recovering from a mastectomy and full node clearance. 
Chemo is a whole body treatment so I felt good getting it first as it would also treat cancer anywhere in the body.
wishing all the best for your sister xo

Hi @cute31892015, I'm so happy you have found your way into the forum. As I said in our personal messages, I'm only a newbie myself and the info I have is from these wonderful women here. Now you can get really good info from them and their experiences as they have been through the type of cancer treatments you sister is having.  But if you ever feel like a chat, I'm here. Thinking of you both xxx

@cute31892015 hope both you and your sister are doing okay. Xx

@cute31892015 The other ladies have given great advice. I just want to say have trust in her team. They will recommend tbe best order of things to be done based on years of experience and clinical trial results. Kath x

@cute31892015 The doctors like to win these battles with cancer too so they want to make good choices. It is very common now to have chemo before surgery.
If your sister is really confused about why this is being recommended she should ask the doctors to explain again. I gather that English may be your second language (I hope I don't offend you by guessing that) If you think it may help your sister, ask if you can have an interpreter who understands some of the terminology the doctors are using. Most big hospitals will be able to help you with that and it may make her, and you, a bit more comfortable. Marg

Thank  you  so much for all the information  shared for my sister .it will be a lot of help  for her situation  right now.