Mel. I hear you re your daughter my 37 yo still has not been checked. I also had grade 3 DCIS near the new primary. What was your HER 2 results. I too was not prepared and even though I am sitting here waiting for my chemo nurse to cannulate me I still have a sense of unrealness. Being under 2 year since original is a worry and I do not know why my HER2 status changed as apparently that is not genetic it is somatic. The experience is so different to the first especially if BC1 has good path you think you are free and clear. Well we were both sucker punched with that one. I find myself worrying about other cancers popping up it is probably a silly thing to worry about. Let me know how you are going. Joy. xx