Hi @Artferret (love the name!) challenging is an understatement. As the other ladies have said there is a huge amount of support here for you. Once you have your surgery you'll have a clear treatment plan and will feel a lot more in control. You'll also be able target questions back to us - we've all had breast cancer but have so many variations in our diagnosis, surgery and treatment. My uncle has prostate cancer a few years ago and following surgery, radiation and some hormone treatment is now cancer free.
Just like breast cancer, there are wonderful treatments and successes in PC. You and your husband will get through this together and don't forget you now have all of us too! Jane xx