Bloody hell @Artferret, I've heard the saying the family that plays together..... Bit too literal you two!!! Welcome to the forum. All jokes aside its great that the two of you have such a support system going BUT if you have family members who offer assistance (real, practical assistance) Tie them up to the furniture and make the most of them so that the two of you can breathe a bit and keep your strength for your treatments. If you've got questions throw them at everyone here, there's a slight bit of experience. Big hugs to both, keep in touch and letbus all know how you're both doing. Xx Cath