Hi @dada Sorry but you won’t get an answer to your will I won’t I. It is such an individual choice. You need to make a decision that you can live with and not regret.
I had chemo first up due to my BC being so aggressive, then a mastectomy. % didn’t even factor into mine. I did refuse radiation after the mx but my % with or without was unknown as it was so close to be the same either way. Big hugs as you contemplate your decision. Oh, and good on your onco for not pushing you one way or another. Most of them do. Your body, your decision.