Breaking news to others

Thank you Anne. It’s so so true.  <3 (sorry I don’t know how to format my replies yet…) but many thanks. 

Anne65 said:

@Jream When I was diagnosed, I chose not to tell many people at all. I come from a small country town & didnt want everyone in the street looking at me or treating me differently. To this day, its only my close family (sister & her kids) & 2 friends who know plus my boss & work colleague. My parents-in-law dont even know!! I am so glad I made the decision as I can live normally & go anywhere, without having people ask me questions or talk behind my back. Everyone is different but what I want to say, is that you dont have to tell everyone or anyone you dont want to. You can go through this with the support of a few close friends/family who you chose to tell & you will know who they are. Also, my BC Nurse offered to tell any family or friends for me as that is part of her job. She can then counsel them if required & offer support if needed. Maybe you can arrange a meeting with a BC Nurse to discuss your concerns & see if they can speak to your friends/family with you. They can also provide great reading material which may answer many questions/concerns they may have. Good luck & wishing you love & strength xx <3

Anne65 said:

@Jream When I was diagnosed, I chose not to tell many people at all. I come from a small country town & didnt want everyone in the street looking at me or treating me differently. To this day, its only my close family (sister & her kids) & 2 friends who know plus my boss & work colleague. My parents-in-law dont even know!! I am so glad I made the decision as I can live normally & go anywhere, without having people ask me questions or talk behind my back. Everyone is different but what I want to say, is that you dont have to tell everyone or anyone you dont want to. You can go through this with the support of a few close friends/family who you chose to tell & you will know who they are. Also, my BC Nurse offered to tell any family or friends for me as that is part of her job. She can then counsel them if required & offer support if needed. Maybe you can arrange a meeting with a BC Nurse to discuss your concerns & see if they can speak to your friends/family with you. They can also provide great reading material which may answer many questions/concerns they may have. Good luck & wishing you love & strength xx <3