Welcome Jream
I too found it diffucult to tell family n friends
So I did not dwell on this
I waitedt till I new outcome of surgery had first a mastectomy then new the types of treatment required
I did not dwell on letting others know
One family member was the contact person for siblings
If you are working and need time off you do need support
Family and friends are are a bonus
Many family n friends do not know I have bc mets so still ok
I have not needed chemo or radiation
Take your time to let f n f know
All thebest with treatment
Bright in hope