Hi Vallerina, such a shock twice over. I had a recurrence and kind of get where you are coming from. At my first diagnosis I was in no way ready for a mastectomy (who really is?). I can see you are a member of choosing breast reconstruction and have indicated you would like an immediate reconstruction. If you go to the choosing breast reconstruction page and look in the announcements there is one called photo stories and resources. If you click on that and scroll t the bottom you will see links to some information sheets. One in particular is
questions to ask. You might like to take that along to your appointment or have a look through it first.
Big breath, we know it's crap and we are all here to hold your hand.
Paula xxx