Hi Vicky. So sorry that you've had this 2nd shock - it may take time to come to terms with as you just go through the motions at the moment of what's to be done.
If you'd like more information about breast reconstruction options, there is a group on here called Choosing Breast Reconstruction. You will also find a lot of info on the Reclaim Your Curves website - and they also have a Peer Support volunteer in Brisbane that you can contact if that helps.
It really helps to be as informed as you can be, but I also know how it feels to be in this crazy, messy head-space time.
Sending lots of love to you xx