@ayrhaven, I’m with you, we are with you. You CAN survive this, you WILL survive this.
If your pathway is typical, you will probably have chemo first. My chemo was 4 cycles of epirubicin and cyclophosphamide, fortnightly, and 12 cycles of paclitaxel, weekly, then radiotherapy 5 days a week for 5 weeks. But it all depends on your personal results. So my lot after surgery took 20 weeks chemo and 5 weeks radio. Usually there is a short break in between the two.
In the meantime, there are lots of important things to do. First get prepped, there is a lot on this site about what to do. This will help give you something to focus on while you wait to start the next phase.
I suggest to give the BCNA team a call, they can take you through things and you can get a plan together. For me, a plan helped get some structure into what was happening so I felt more in control as a result.
Lots more to say, ask away! I know that the wonderful people on this forum have your back.
Let’s do this together.
lots of love Tinks xx