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ayrhaven
6 years agoMember
All Alone
I have just been diagnosed with Breast Cancer, my husband has had a stroke, trying to run a farm, family in Melbourne, cannot see anybody, surgery next week, I feel I am falling apart. I feel all al...
arpie
6 years agoMember
I am not familiar with the area - but hopefully our other Vic members will.
Wonderful that you already have some help with feeding etc. You really need to concentrate on yourself just now - that is NOT being selfish. Yes, I can understand you keeping it from your husband's Mum & Dad. Just try to share the load tho - do you (or your husband) have brothers or sisters that could help (I am assuming that you don't have children tha may be of assistance?) Pull in any favours that you may be owed ..... any weight off YOUR shoulders, will help in the long run. xx
The waiting game always sucks - the 'not knowing' is the pits. We've all been there, sadly.
Yep - keep yourself busy - doing what you love! xx We've got another 6 months of this lock down, I reckon! :(
Take care, stay safe xx
Wonderful that you already have some help with feeding etc. You really need to concentrate on yourself just now - that is NOT being selfish. Yes, I can understand you keeping it from your husband's Mum & Dad. Just try to share the load tho - do you (or your husband) have brothers or sisters that could help (I am assuming that you don't have children tha may be of assistance?) Pull in any favours that you may be owed ..... any weight off YOUR shoulders, will help in the long run. xx
The waiting game always sucks - the 'not knowing' is the pits. We've all been there, sadly.
Yep - keep yourself busy - doing what you love! xx We've got another 6 months of this lock down, I reckon! :(
Take care, stay safe xx