I live in Casterton Victoria, I am able to put my husband in care for at least 2 weeks (covid-19 does not help) Luckily we have just finished calving so I do have some down time. I have somebody to help feed out etc. I am just so scared being about 4 1/2 hours away. I do have a couple of nurse friends which before all of the goings on we would catch up and have a cuppa (that cannot happen now) My husbands mum and dad are in their 80's I have not told them because I think they would tell me it is time to give up the farm. My husband would then want to go into full time care and I would definately be alone. The waiting game is the hardest even though I have not had to wait long. Looks like I will be doing a lot of craft work.