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sandramj
9 years agoMember
As I am new to this site please excuse any errors I might make - like I went to flag a post to keep it, but found it was only to report etc. Woops.
LADIES I am SOOOOO grateful for each of your posts and I feel like I have a "team" building that I can talk to and that feeling of not being alone and shut down is easing..... I am noticing I am beginning to open up and talk to my huisband and crying in front of him and expressing my fears etc - which is new for us - even after 47 years of marriage and many surgeries etc I don't usually tell him how I feel - to save him worrying - and MAYBE cos of the fear of him shutting me down. I have a feeling I am going to learn a lot with this new opportunity" for growth. ATM I'm not sure if talking positive is changing my mindset or if its just me masking my real feelings.....
THANKS LADIES FOR MAKING ME FEEL WELCOME AND that my feelings are "Normal" for where I'm at just now. Thanks for accepting into your inner circle. I look forward to contributing and hopefully at some stage giving back......
LADIES I am SOOOOO grateful for each of your posts and I feel like I have a "team" building that I can talk to and that feeling of not being alone and shut down is easing..... I am noticing I am beginning to open up and talk to my huisband and crying in front of him and expressing my fears etc - which is new for us - even after 47 years of marriage and many surgeries etc I don't usually tell him how I feel - to save him worrying - and MAYBE cos of the fear of him shutting me down. I have a feeling I am going to learn a lot with this new opportunity" for growth. ATM I'm not sure if talking positive is changing my mindset or if its just me masking my real feelings.....
THANKS LADIES FOR MAKING ME FEEL WELCOME AND that my feelings are "Normal" for where I'm at just now. Thanks for accepting into your inner circle. I look forward to contributing and hopefully at some stage giving back......