A lovely support

I have adapted to the intimacy change..back and neck rubs are more amazing now. I still have light skin touch sensation so a naked cuddle actually feels just like my old breasts. As they say the biggest erogenous zone is the brain. My unaffected breast I never actually liked being touched much, the one with the cancer , well we both avoided it after diagnosis anyway.

I didn't get a referral to an oncologist until after surgery. I think the pre surgery chemo is more often dependent on size...and it would happen if the breast surgeon thinks it needs to be done prior surgery. Hope this helps. Kath x