55Jlz is newly diagnosed please offer her the awesome support that you all do.

Hi @55Jlz, Welcome to a very supportive safe place. I think initially we all are a bit numb and then you tend to go through different stages. Here's a link to help with what to pack for hospital - http://www.reclaimyourcurves.org.au/uploads/2/6/5/5/26558246/what_to_pack_for_hospital_list.pdf.
Initially the whole process is a bit of a whirlwind, but if you need to chat, cry, scream, tell a sick joke - whatever it is that is going to help you get through we are all here for you as your online cheer squad!! Let us know how you're doing. Big hug lovely. Xx Cath