Hello,
I was diagnosed at 35 (in 2018, I'm now 37), with Her2, while I was pregnant with my third child.
(I'm happy to report that said child was born healthy and happy and is doing well).
Try not to blame yourself! I had my lump for weeks and weeks before I got it checked out....just put it down to being pregnant...I had also had a mammogram only a year before, which was all clear. There seems to be no rhyme or reason to these things...and yes, its very scary thinking about all the things you may miss out on with the kids....totally get the crying thing!! I hope wherever you are with your treatment, things are going well for you!
