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Deanne
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9 years ago

Getting there

 In May this year it will be 4 years since diagnosis (at 47) for me (IDC Stage 3, Grade 2, ER and PR +). As time has gone by I have made many changes to my life. Changes that help me cope with side effects, changes that allow me to do more of the things that help me feel good.

Health wise I have maintained my weight after losing those extra chemo kilos and a few more for good measure. I exercise daily doing things that I enjoy with people I like spending time with. In the last 6 months I have added weightlifting to my weekly schedule for improving my bone density. Much to my surprise I absolutely love it mainly due to the terrific coach and lovely group that I do this with.

My healthy lifestyle includes a much healthier 'diet' with almost no refined sugar or packaged food. Just real food, prepared in simple but yummy ways.

Work wise I have finally made the break from teaching (which I loved but now find too stressful) and now work for my daughter in her thriving internet based business. Luckily we get along very well, even at close quarters   ;)

One of the main goals that I continue to reach for is to make life more simple. It is an open ended goal that I just keep moving towards. I am fortunate to have the support of my husband and daughters as we all have realised that life is precious and we need to live it well.

We have had a few hurdles since my diagnosis, not least that my husband is facing the loss of his sight at some (unknown) point in the future due to deteriorating damage from an auto-immune disease. Every flare up unfortunately makes it worse.

So as we begin another year, I feel happy with where I am and positive about what we have planned for this year. None of us know what the future has in store but each day that we make the most of is another positive one that can never be taken away. 

May there be many good days ahead for us all. Deanne xxx

26 Replies

  • Deanne what a journey thusfar! Four years is a long time and a helluva lot of appointments. I believe this sums your journey up. Take care from Christine xx 

  • Hey @Deanne, Yes I have powdered Magnesium everyday and I also have a Magnesium spray which is great too. The pains I have are alot of cramping all over the body. My exercise physiologist said its because chemo shrinks the sheath across the muscle, so we're working on that and the stretching is helping. That is interesting about your diet. I dont have alot of red meat or tomatoes not often. However Ive cut out refined sugar. Im thinking of using ginger and turmeric in cooking, is that what you do?? I love ginger!!! My partner swears by ginger and garlic for everything! its even a natural antibiotic! I would always have a teaspoon of sugar in a coffee in the morning. I stopped about a month ago having coffee and so I think thats 7 teaspoons less a week to start LOL. Im hoping that will translate into losing weight! Grrrr!!! More determined this year, I have 6kg and its going to happen lol!
  • Hey @melclarity

    It can be so hard with side effects and pain. I hope it does get better for you this year. Since I started Femara my body is much more reactive and the pain has stopped me in my tracks a couple of times. Magnesium (which I know you take) has helped but I also find some foods helpful and some a real 'pain'  ;) I find I have less pain if I eat lots of green leafy foods, ginger and turmeric. Foods that cause a reaction of pain for me are anything with refined sugar, salt, tomatoes and red meat. Since I have adjusted my diet I have a lot less pain. I also have found yoga and massage helpful. I even have magnesium cream to rub into any sore bits or soaking in an Epsom salts bath is very good too!  :)
  • Great Deanne! I also have the same diagnosis as you in 2015 though mine was a recurrence in the same spot from DCIS however 4yrs prior to that and treatment. I have a pending mastectomy unfortunately due to having a recurrence it just makes sense. I loved hearing your Story, my exercise is slow to get off the ground still 1yr post chemo due to side effects and pain. So hoping this year I finally start kicking goals before and after surgery and enjoying all the other bits the year has to offer. 
  • Congratulations on the 4 years and to many more with less stress. Great plans and strategies and such positive lifestyle changes.
  • Thank you Deanne. So many challenges but so much positivity. You are an inspiration and I wish you and your family improved health and happiness in 2017.  Jane xx