Took the dog for a long walk to clear my head, and get some happy hormones pumping.
Husband asked if I was ok because I seemed a bit cranky, I told him I was terrified about surgery tomorrow and he said "you should be excited you are getting the tumor out"
NOT VERY HELPFUL
My husband drove me so crazy during my chemo sessions in 2002, that when I had chemo for a small new cancer this year, I went alone!! He was really supportive in his own way, but he kept making lame jokes and insensitive comments without meaning to. Lately, he has asked my surgeon if I'll turn into a bitch when the chemo brings on menopause (my female surgeon just gave him a withering look). He's also been known to ask if there's a catalogue that HE can pick my new boobs from. He thinks it's hilarious. He's never quite understood why mammograms and doctor's visits put me on edge for several days before. Thank goodness the girls on here understand! All the very best for your surgery. xx Jane
Hello,
Wishing you good luck for tomorrow. I think sometimes husband's feel like they have to always be positive and put on a front when they may be scared too but not wish to admit it.
Julia
Hello,
Wishing you good luck for tomorrow. I think sometimes husband's feel like they have to always be positive and put on a front when they may be scared too but not wish to admit it.
Julia
