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Cora
4 years agoMember
This week
Hello everyone, last Monday had to have an aspiration due to swelling. Then Thursday morning had DCIS removed, they filled my breast with local anesthesic, went home after 5 hours. Pain started gettin...
StrongCoffee
4 years agoMember
Big hugs, what a tough week but it sounds like your decision is already made (and rightly so!) as that is just appalling behaviour. Please don't let any level of love bombing apologies/excuses from him in the coming days sway you.
If I may I make an observation/ask a question - please ignore if you are not in the headspace for this. However your deference to your partner's medical advice over your own instinct (until things got really bad) suggest to me that there was already a major imbalance in your relationship. His advice was, in short, terrible. I am assuming he is not a doctor, but am happy to be corrected. Was the celebrex prescribed to you for post-op pain relief?
If I may I make an observation/ask a question - please ignore if you are not in the headspace for this. However your deference to your partner's medical advice over your own instinct (until things got really bad) suggest to me that there was already a major imbalance in your relationship. His advice was, in short, terrible. I am assuming he is not a doctor, but am happy to be corrected. Was the celebrex prescribed to you for post-op pain relief?