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reconstruction or remain flat?
Hi everyone, Back in March, I had an ultrasound and a 3D mammogram because I experienced bloody nipple discharge. The ultrasound showed an abnormality in one of my milk ducts, so I underwent a sm...
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I had a mastectomy nearly 14 years ago and have remained mono-boobed ever since. Lots of women never have reconstruction, for all manner of reasons. I just didn’t fancy it - a fake boob on the outside was fine (I’m a 16 DD!) but not on the inside. I’ve never regretted it. Had I been small breasted my decision would have been even faster. I wear a prosthesis, don’t find it difficult or uncomfortable ( I accept that some women in very humid climes do) and I get almost the full cost of the prosthesis rebated every two years.
My surgeon was keen to do reconstruction and would do it now ( he’s long forgiven me) so worth checking - in many cases you can do it years later if you change your mind.
Neither I nor my partner have any issues about what it looks like (just lopsided) so all’s well. Many women feel much better after reconstruction, it’s normalising and if so, go for it. But the alternative is perfectly fine for me. Best wishes whatever you decide.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. It means a lot to hear your personal experience, especially after so many years. I really appreciate that you shared both the practical side and how comfortable you feel with your decision. It’s encouraging to know that there isn’t just one "right" choice. Thank you again, and I wish you continued good health and happiness.
