Today a close friend who doesn't have BC sent me this link she is a professional counsellor she knew I would want to share this https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/10/176194/life-after-breast-c...
Oh my goodness, she so eloquently writes exactly what I'm feeling. What so many of us are feeling. Weirdly good to see it written down. Thanks for posting that @SoldierCrab.