I think, I hope I have learnt my lesson. NO is not a mean word

Well my house lizard  has been away since Wednesday and I’ve been out and visited family went to the club for dinner and done the housework at a nice steady pace as  theres no drop off or pick up at stupid hours. He doesn’t get it it takes 2 hours out of my day
But anyway it has given me more incentive to get my NO happening more
living alone is great I can do so much more without having to consider anyone else. 
Had my play date was wonderful. 
More power to me I say