I think, I hope I have learnt my lesson. NO is not a mean word

Thanks  all
went to one of my daughters house for a hug. 
And yes mum you have to go back to saying NO! 
Out of the mouths of babes.  my little namesake granddaughter comes over and has a cry on my lap and says I miss playing a your house with you nanny when are you going to be home for me to come.  Your always out.  we now have a play date booked
if that isn’t enough reason nothing is. 
Just needed that to show I was spreading myself too thin.