Dealing with unhelpful comments

Such questions can be meant well but it's quite draining, isn't it? Even without the faux pas of saying it in front of your daughter.  I got sick of 'my story' and the re-telling of it so referred all questions or discussions to my partner.  He knew everything so I got him to answer questions and I just drifted away.   :D   Even now that I'm out the other side I still feel the same.  I don't want to be the centre of attention, I don't want to talk about my personal health issues and I don't even really want to discuss cancer just because you heard I'd had it.  If I don't have my partner for backup I usually just say I really don't like talking about it and quickly change the subject to something upbeat and fun.  Really......we live with cancer, the threat of cancer returning, etc, we don't necessarily want it to be the focus of conversation as well.  And I thoroughly support was @Zoffiel suggested to say!!!