Not hijacking at all. These are all real issues faced by childless couples, sure some with children will experience this as well, but let's remember why I posted in the first place, to support other childless women who happen to have been diagnosed with breast cancer. It's a real fear with some after diagnosis what may become of them if their partner passes away or if they don't even have a partner. Public Trustee do take a large chunk of the estate and they also dictate the terms, I used to work in mental health so I have a bit of an understanding on how they work.
At the end of the day some things will always be out of our control.
