Are you a breast cancer survivor who happens to be childless?

Cheers Anne, after thinking about it, best to go private as you say. The whole reason for starting this post was to seek support from others in my position. Thanks for your input. 
I have heard from a mediator who suggested a public forum as a sense of education for others?
It does highlight the troubles we childless women have with the lack of support available to us and how difficult it is to go public about these sensitive stories and feelings.