@"Janet A" I am pleased that you felt the same about Jody as I did. I was rather disappointed. I really like your idea of a blog and I think you would be very good at it....seriously! It's obvious in your writings on here that you are a very intelligent, articulate woman with something to say. I too know about the smashed self confidence, so I hear you. I can't believe that cut backs have left you (and others) feeling alone, this is not good enough. I will see what I can find out about childlessness and bc and let you know. As you say, if you can get some support you can offer it to others and I think that goes for most of us. After all, we are the ones with the "hands on" experience. Please don't give up on the blog idea, I am right behind you or I can be beside you if you prefer. Perhaps one day you will be addressing a conference with your knowledge and wisdom to help others in our situation? Stick with this @Janet A it's the right thing to do. Regards Ann
