Yes, @annsan I also stopped when it said to pay up, I don't believe in that either. Jody has a facebook page but plugs away at selling conferences etc, another I am a member of is called something a rather I can't remember, but a lot of complaining and little positive solutions offered on there.
i have been thinking of starting a blog but wondered how it would go. This bc thing certainly smashes your self confidence and I have little or no support where I am, was seeing a psychologist through the cancer council but they had cut backs so that has been withdrawn. I called my breast care nurse about if she had known any other women like me in the community and if she knew the statistics on the link between childlessness and bc, she got a little hostile over the query which really had me confused because normally she is so fantastic with everything...I am reluctant to call her back to see if there are other places. I feel like its a round round rosey in trying to find support or someone to talk with, drives me a little nutty some days. My dogs do a great job in listening! They all think I am doing a woes to me but I'm not! If I can get some support then I can offer it to someone else who is in the same boat as me as I like to help others, I volunteer at Breastscreen on call back days, mostly I have the women in stitches instead of tension of waiting for each test during the afternoon.
