@"Janet A"
The question of children or not was part of my initial consultation with my Medical oncologist.
It broke my heart to learn that being without children could be a contributing factor to my BC along with the classic age group.
We've been through the emptiness without children and occasionally still feel it.
When we are young we are conditioned to believe you will leave school, have fun, meet someone, marry and have kids! No mention of BC in the happy ever after!
It's our 40th wedding anniversary this year
Enough about me
