Hello Janet. You are not alone ! I was not able to have children (the doctors never discovered why) and have recently been diagnosed with BC. My new-found friend who was diagnosed in 2014 was also unable to have children (due to a childhood trauma). We both dearly wanted children and yes, we do feel very left out at times as others look at us and think we were selfish in not having a family even though that was not our choice. When others have a support network of adult offspring and have that focus of a reason to keep fighting we feel very alone.
For your survey - add two to your list. Cheers Anne
