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NotHappyJan
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7 years ago

Mum always knows everything!

I am newly diagnosed and dread telling my parents.  They are elderly and yes it will be a shock.  But....my mum knows everything and will no doubt tell me what I have done wrong, what I need to do, etc.  I am dreading telling her.  

I know she will also be on my doorstop every day and on the phone which I don't want.  

How do I deal with this?
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    NotHappyJan
    Member
    7 years ago
    Thanks for the reply  :)  Yep my mum is easier said than done, but I have grown some "balls" over the years so will be straight and firm.  Dad is the softie, so will be harder for him x
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    Sister
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    7 years ago
    Others will probably have better advice, but I would suggest telling her this (in the nicest possible way) straight up when you tell your parents about the diagnosis.