I feel better reading your positive posts - thank you for taking the time to type and share.  I'm here in Adelaide.  
I've had a bad day today, very weepy...hubby took me down this morning to speak with my Breast Nurse.  As I'm sure you all know, Breast Nurses are a special breed:  caring, kind & patient.  Her talk with us has made me feel a little better.  
The uncertainty of what may follow on from next week's surgery is playing on my mind - just praying and hoping that further lymph's are all clear.   
I will get together a file (good idea), thanks Michelle_R      
Thank you duxx1234 'One day at a time'...I will remember that.