Diagnosed 2 weeks today & need help with mindset please

@LucyE I will thank you. I was starting to plan a trip to Europe with my husband and kids (18 &16) for my 40th in April next year. I have stopped researching now as I'm not sure how soon after chemo you can travel or how long they will wait after chemo before my double mastectomy or if I will have radiation or not, blah blah blah. I will get there one day but it may not be for my 40th.