Diagnosed 2 weeks today & need help with mindset please

@TripleTea I think your plan is PERFECT!!! go and have a fabulous time!!! You know like everyone here, from the very beginning to where I am now, it hasn't been easy, there have been some very low moments, but also alot of reflective time. I actually love my life now....the way I choose to live now not the way I was living for everyone else. You first, as hard as that is to do...the rest will follow. I didn't have any support either diagnosis really, the Forum would have been so incredible so I joined well after I had finished treatment. Having been there and knowing the depth of it every thought and feeling is why it's so great to give back and support others on this road. You stay focused on that path and enjoy a few Mohito's!!! the rest you will take in your stride with the love of your family. We are all here anytime, Hugs Melinda xo