Hi Meg,
I have been following your blog a little and am so sorry to hear your situation has changed, but you seem very strong and its wonderful to see you have found support here to help make your decisions. I just wanted to flag with you the Breast reconstruction online group in case you wanted to speak to more women who have chosen reconstruction and what it means to them. Many women have joined to help with their decisions, not everyone goes for it for a variety of reasons. If not, you are of course welcome anytime in the future if you change your mind down the track. The good thing is that we have these options.
All the best, Louie