Bluejae
13 years agoMember
Scared
Hi, I have just found out that I have a local reocurrance . I only just finished chemo from my last cancer in May last year and because I had a bilateral mastectomy with tissue expanders I was just ge...
I too, at only three months in can't share in what you are going through right now, other than you are unfortunatley living the sort of thing most of us have nightmares about.
Kate's advice is spot on - trust in your care team, but make sure you ask all the questions you need to.
I know two women who are long term survivors -- one has had and beaten breast cancer twice, and a brain tumour; another had breast cancer twice and ovarian cancer. Pushing 65 now, she runs marathons.
really sorry to hear you are going through such a frankly crap time; perhaps not share with your little boy until after you know what is exactly ahead for you, and remember he loves you no matter what.
Burn candles. Long baths. A long walk. Whatever clears your head and heart. Be gentle with yourself in the coming days and weeks.
Stay in touch and take care.
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